Poem of the Month
Breaking Up Polls
Breaking up Advice
Win His Love Back
The Zodiac Man
STOP a Breakup
Curl her toes with these tips and techniques!
Women Love Bastards
From Nice Guy to Dreamman - A Man's Guide to Holding His Own in a
Women everywhere are
angry about this truth revealing book - written by a woman!
Guaranteed to work within minutes! Control your mind and
the minds of others!
How To Be Her Best Lover Ever
Lovemaking guide for men, revealing the unique Mind-set
Ultimate Home Tantra
Discover Today How To Instantly Improve Your Sex, Love and
Relationship Life With The Ultimate Guided Home Tantra
Questions For Couples
What you absolutely must know about your relationship - test
your compatibility and grow deeper in love.
Guy Gets Girl
Pickup, Dating and Seduction Guide
Save My Marriage Today
magic bring your soul mate back to you?
How To Be Irresistible To Women/Men
The Art Of Approaching Women
Dating & Seduction eBook For Men
Up is Hard to Do: 10 Ways to Make it Easier
1. Make a list
If you are easily persuaded back into a relationship
you are trying to break off, it is useful to write down a list of reasons
why you should not date your soon-to-be-ex. Having this list, and
regularly looking at it, will help you resist potential pleas from your
2. Be Honest
If someone breaks up with you, don't you want
to know the real reason? Don't be afraid to tell someone the truth, but don't
do it in a hurtful condescending manner. Neither you, nor your ex, will be
helped if you call him/her names or attach labels. Be descriptive; instead
of saying "You're a bitch", you can say "You are impolite to my family, this
is an important issue to me and if you cannot get along with them I do not
see a future for us".
3. Find a quiet moment
Never break up in public, it is not something
you would want someone doing to you. Pick a quiet moment at a time when your
significant other is not distracted or stressed. Try to explain the best
you can where you are coming from, and the reasons why you do not see a future
for the two of you.
| 4. Think of
Never stay with someone out of pity, or because
you do not want to see them hurt. You are hurting your significant other
much more by staying with him/her for all the wrong reasons. If you are not
going to be happy in the relationship, you will never make anyone else happy.
You have to be happy first, and if your boyfriend or girlfriend is not able
to give you want you need in a relationship, then there is no point in making
yourself unhappy. The longer you stay in a relationship that is doomed for
failure (either a break-up down the road, or a very unhappy lasting
relationship), the longer you prevent your partner from finding the person
that is perfect for him.
5. Take some distance
If you are not sure you want to break up, taking
some distance for a while can give you some perspective without making any
permanent decisions. You will need to communicate to your boy or girlfriend
that you need some time alone to think things through, but that you are still
in a relationship. Be clear on what your expectations are from this period,
and how long it will last. Some people assume that because they are on a
break, they are also free to see other people, while sometimes their partner
does not share that view. If you are clear about these "rules", you can both
get the maximum out of the trial separation.
If you have already decided to break up,
try to avoid contact with your ex for a while. Even if you decide to stay
friends, you two will need to 'get over' each other and move on with your
lives. Nobody can go from lovers to friends overnight, so give each other
some time to get used to the idea!
Listen to what your partner has to say! Whether
you are the one breaking up, or the one being broken up with, listen to their
perspective. At the very least you can learn something about yourself or
the relationship, and perhaps the break-up is entirely unrelated to you as
a person, knowing this can help you heal and move on. For example; if you
hate children, but your partner cannot wait to have ten, you are clearly
not compatible. Breaking up can still be hard, but you would be better off
being good friends than lovers. Realizing this and realizing that in situations
like these you may not have to loose the best friend you found in your lover,
will allow you to move on and increase your chances of maintaining the
| 7. Don't panic!
Even though breaking up hurts, for both sides,
it does not have to be the end of the world. There are plenty of other people
out there, and you will find "the one". Clearly the person you were with
did not qualify as "the one"; otherwise you would still be together. If the
break-up is circumstantial, then there is no reason why in the future things
wouldn't work out for you. Either you stay friends, or perhaps you meet again,
and if the time is right then who knows what can develop!
8. Don't beat around the bush!
If you are breaking up with someone, the worst
thing you can do is to beat around the bush. Get right to the point, but
take the time to explain your feelings from there.
9. Avoid clichés!
Clichés are the worst to deal with, comments
like "it's not you, it's me!" do not only say nothing, they make your partner
feel like it is their fault and you are just trying to be nice. Honesty
is the best policy, and even if it is not their fault but something is going
on in your life that elicited this, make sure you explain it and don't just
throw in a cliché to be done with it.
10. Be respectful to your ex's
Even if you both decide the relationship is
not going to work and you go your separate ways, don't be insensitive. So
don't show up at your favorite bar with a new flame just weeks after breaking
up, and don't call your ex-who's-still-your-friend to tell him about your
hot new boyfriend. Be discreet if you start seeing someone new right away,
and be sensitive to the other person's feelings.
Talk About it in our Community Forums
MillionaireMatch.com - the best dating
site for sexy, successful singles!
Advantage Are you really happy with your penis
Romantic love letters.
With a Narcissist: Living with, loving, and leaving a narcissist. How to
survive it all!
To Catch Your Cheating Lover
How you can quickly and easily discover if your mate is cheating on
Bring Back A Lost Love!
Bring back the Love of your life, no matter how hopeless
your situation appears. Ends loneliness, ensures happiness!
you cast a love spell on your ex's heart and recapture their love?
Woman Men Adore
What every woman can do to have the relationship of her dreams.