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| Why Women
Would Rather Be Miserable In a Relationship Than Happy Alone
People are pack animals by default, and generally
afraid of the unknown. Once we get comfortable, we don't easily want to give
that up in return for potential solitude and discomfort. Women are thus more
likely to put up with an unhappy relationship, than taking the risk of being
A relationship is a social safety net. Every
person wants this safety net for other reasons; some may like the financial
security (if you are in a tight spot, your boyfriend will likely help you
out) and some like the social perks (i.e. you get to borrow his friends and
family and join their parties).
When a relationship turns into a situation that
makes us unhappy, we generally still look at the "bright sides" and try to
see whether they can possibly outweigh the bad. If you want it badly enough,
it usually will!
|The problem really is familiarity.
Women rather stay in a bad familiar relationship than in an unfamiliar good
Being scared of the unknown is what is keeping
millions of women trapped in a self-continued hell.
Common problem that goes hand in hand with this
is the delusion that "things will get better", "he will change" or "I need
to give it time". If you have ever seen the episode of sex and the city where
Miranda is dating a fellow lawyer, you will know what I mean. He guy is rude,
inappropriate and generally just mean. She blames his stress, the fact he
is trying to make partner, etc. She also made herself believe things will
get better as soon as he makes partner. Truth is, when he finally does things
get worse, because now he has the stress of being a partner and having to
perform accordingly. At that point she is smart enough to walk out.
| So why do women tell themselves
that a certain future event or just time in general will make things better?
Why does someone first need to "get a different job", "get some more clients"
or "take some time off" before they treat you any better than they are? These
issues can create stress, but they should never create stress in a relationship
or be an excuse to mistreat you.
So ladies, when in a bad situation that does
not respond to any attempt to improve it, stop telling yourself things will
get better with time, a different job or a different house. They won't. The
problem will either continue, get worse or get shifted into a different
direction. Face your fears for what they are; you may be afraid of the
unfamiliar. Once you acknowledge that, and fairly determine your relationship
is beyond saving, you can start preparing yourself for a different life and
a better relationship with yourself.
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