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Blessed by a Broken Heart

Getting your heart broken is one of those trials in life we all have to go through in some form. It is painful and difficult, but also natural. As you are going through the worst of it, it will be very hard for you to see any good in the situation, but as you work through your darkest moments you will hopefully find the strength to analyze yourself and grow as a person.

The past relationship

Cherish this period of grieving to take a look at the relationship that just ended. What did you really like about it? What did you hate? What would you do differently next time and what would you never change? You can learn from this experience and take a lot of good away from it, so you can make better choices in the future instead of repeating mistakes.

People usually get into a dating pattern, entering the same 'types' of relationships with the same types of people and then brush the issue off as "I always meet the wrong man/woman". Wrong! They probably meet a mix of great men or women, and not so great men or women. Instead of there being a problem with the people they meet, there is a problem with the people they choose. Choosing smart starts with looking at your last relationship and determining which traits you do not want in a person, and what you should have done differently yourself.

Look at yourself

Rarely do relationships end just because of one person, or one situation. Breakups are at least as complex as the relationship itself, and it is not uncommon for more than one factor to come into play. In many cases there are issues on both sides of the coin, and this means that during your post-breakup period you are in for some introspection. If your ex is willing to give you some guidance as to what you can improve on within yourself, it can be helpful if you are open to listening to something you may not want to hear. It doesn't mean he or she is always right, but it is his or her perception of you. Asking friends candidly about what they think you could improve on may help as well. Good friends will try to make you feel better, but great friends will tell you the truth. As you know more about yourself, you can help yourself grow into an emotionally richer, better person.

Unless we go through some sort of tragedy in our lives we rarely sit still to really evaluate whom we are and what we are doing. A broken heart is one of those tragedies. Not only is it a painful experience, it can also be a tremendous blessing. You are released from a relationship that was destined to fail anyways, and you get the chance to learn a lot about your relationships, what you want in life, who you are and how you can become a better version of yourself. Broken hearts are really new opportunities and new challenges. So take your time to grieve, but then move forward and take something positive from this experience. If you do, it will have a lasting impact in your future!
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