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Looking at our 'role models' in Hollywood, we'd
certainly think breakups have been in for ages! Even within our immediate
surroundings we can call ourselves lucky if few people are splitting up or
divorced. More and more people come from divorced families, and it seems
the silver and golden anniversaries are dramatically decreasing because people
simply do not reach that far anymore.
So are breakups in? Do you feel pressure to
move on to something better when the current relationship is not quite what
it should be?
Perhaps we can look at some of the reasons divorce
is a far less complex thing now than it was a few decades ago;
| People are more financially
Whereas couples needed each other financially
a few decades ago, we not make enough on average to support our families
on our own. We have a general culture built on not needing someone else in
our lives. Imagine it would make us vulnerable!
I cannot say this is a bad thing though; being
independent does give you the freedom to step away from a relationship that
is just plain bad, and where no improvement has proven possible. I met a
young woman who was, or felt, financially dependent on her common law husband.
She wasn't happy, and she had tried to bring the relationship back to life
for over a year. It was a funny situation, because she still loved her partner,
was attracted to him and when they were on their own she could be happy.
However, he did not at all get along with her parents, and they could not
give her their blessing. Family being very important to her, she felt trapped
in a relationship she could not sustain in the future. Financial independence
was her first step towards breaking up.
Let's face it, years ago it was a shame to get
a divorce. People were predominantly married and divorce was something socially
disapproved and looked down upon. I believe people who had to still got divorced,
but those with not fantastic reasons to break up would be more motivated
to work things out instead of breaking up. Today, there is no, or little,
social stigma against divorce. It is a common concept, and it is sad that
we have to be surprised when we hear a couple is celebrating their 20th wedding
anniversary. Peer pressure plays a huge role in breakups. This is why divorce
is usually less predominant in religious communities, or among people who
do not have any divorced friends. Peer pressure does not have to be active;
your coupled up friends will probably not look down on you if you get a divorce,
but see it as a "positive influence". If you see your friends go through
rough patches and work it through, you are more likely to follow their example
than you are if at the first sign of trouble your best friends are signing
So I don't believe breakups are necessarily
"in" or fashionable, they are however far easier than they have ever been!
Combined with bad examples all around us, and a society secular towards solid
relationships and staying together divorce is not given enough thought. Everyone
wants to be loved, and have a good relationship, but fewer people are looking
for that within the relationship they are already in!
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