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When you are hoping to get back together with your ex girlfriend you may feel such a sense of urgency that you can come across overwhelming and suffocating to her. Especially if the split occurred recently, she may still need time to think things through, regardless if it was you or her who did the breaking up.

Even if you feel you are sure you want to give it another try, it is important for you to make sure you know what you are doing. The best way to evaluate this, and show her what she is missing, is to have frequent contact without being in a relationship. In other words; you go back to being friends for a while.

If you broke up with your girlfriend, and she says she is not ready to be friends with you yet, you may want to tell her you feel you may have made a mistake, and would like to casually 'connect' again. Keep your new connection platonic, though, to avoid crossing boundaries and creating false expectations.

When you are trying to get her back, do not expect to see instant results. Try to do things together, like go out for a drink with friends, play a sport or go see a movie. These are all things you can do with friends, or dates, so you are not really pressuring anything but you are giving each other time to 'get to know' each other again.

Although you should be honest, and ask he to be honest about her feelings and expectations in return, you should avoid serious talks for a while. Instead, get to know each other again, and allow some emotional space so she can fall in love with you again. Later on you can deal with the issues that ruined the relationship, for now focus on building your friendship. It is after all the foundation of any great relationship!

Let her know you were thinking about her! If you pass by a place that is memorable to the two of you, mention it! It will spark fond memories with her as well, and by remembering the great time you had she will be more receptive to picking that up again in the future!

Be yourself! And be confident! Being clingy, needy or begging you are just showing a really bad side of you. You are showing you are selfish and really don't care about her feelings, you just care about your own and how she can make you feel. This is just a very bad strategy. Instead, be confident. You are worthy of a great relationship, and if that's going to be with your ex girlfriend, great! If not, then there will be someone else out these who is right for you! By showing your ex girlfriend that you are mature, confident and composed you show good sides of yourself. Yes, you may need her, you may want her… but she should not get the impression you are desperate!

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