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They Broke Your Heart: Here's How to Find Forgiveness:
"It's hard to forgive someone who breaks your heart, yet forgiveness is needed in order to heal from the pain of heartbreak."

Your partner whom you loved and trusted so much has simply thrown you over for another. Now all that's left is a broken heart filled with anger and bitterness. You feel like you will never be able to trust another person in your life let alone have any sort of a relationship. Life seems over and your broken relationship keeps haunting you. You will never forget and definitely never forgive this terrible betrayal of your love and trust.

The pain of a break up like this takes over your whole soul. You just cannot seem to break out of the pain, anger and bitterness you are feeling. However in order to heal you must find a way out and be able to live again. Hard as it sounds it can be done and once you do this you will emerge stronger and more able to cope with life's ups and downs. In order to find your way out you must do the hardest thing possible, forgive the person who hurt you so much.

How can you do this?

Communication let it all out: One of the biggest healers is letting it all out. Keeping it to yourself will only make it worse. Try to discuss your feelings with anyone you trust. Just vent and then talk constructively about your feelings and how you are going to handle them. You will feel better and be able to move on out of the cycle of anger and sorrow.

Do not enjoy wallowing in self-pity: we all do this. You just keep on forcing yourself to remember al the good times then the final break over and over again. Until you make yourself a martyr to your pain and suffering. This is a very self-destructive way to go and you cannot afford to keep on brooding over it. Force yourself to not spend time alone just brooding and festering anger and bitterness. You will fill your whole life with sadness and never get out of the pit of self-pity.

Start taking yourself out or go with friends. Start to socialize and build up your life again. As you mingle with others you will feel better and be able to enjoy some good feelings again. Once you do this you will lighten your load of pain and be able to feel like a human being again. It will be hard at first but this is something important that you must do in order to heal and recover from a bad experience.

Once you have freed yourself from the chains of self-pity and let your anger and bitterness out its time to start the healing process. Remember time does help you heal but you cannot really move on with your life and form other relationships until you have actually been able to forgive. Once you do this you will truly be able to move on with your life and be ready to form new and stronger relationships.

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